How To Introduce Sex Toys In The Bedroom

Now that Fifty Shades of Grey is so popular, all of the media is talking about sex and sex toys. Are you curious about trying them but are too embarrassed? Are you unsure whether they are right for you and your relationship?

The following are some common misconceptions about adult toys:

Most people don’t use sex toys

Wrong! Many respectable people use adult toys, including people most would consider perfectly normal. Using an adult toy doesn’t make you “odd” or doesn’t say anything negative about your relationship. It just helps you have fun more fun in the bedroom! You don’t have to share with your friends, your boss or your mother that you use toys unless anyone unless you want to.

Sex toys are just for masturbation.

While adult toys are commonly used for masturbation, many couples enjoy using toys together, whether they are female or male or heterosexual or homosexual. Usually these couples are comfortable trying new things together, are open-minded, and trusting.

Your partner will feel inadequate if you start using a sex toy.

Are you nervous that if you bring an adult toy into the bedroom, it will hurt your partner’s feelings? An adult toy can give you an orgasm, but it can’t tell you how much they love you or rub your back. An object is not a substitute for a real person. If your lover has this fear, be sensitive and stroke his or her ego a little bit. As with most relationship issues, good communication is key.

Using sex toys can be physically dangerous.


In fact, adult toys can have very positive effects on your sexual health.

For example, many doctors and therapists recommend adult toys to women who have trouble reaching orgasm; if you suffer from painful sex, vibrators can stimulate blood flow; all women can benefit from kegel exercisers or kegel balls to tone the pelvic floor muscles; prostate massagers reduce the risk of prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction and frequent nighttime urination. Lastly, orgasms help you live longer, block pain and, some say, look younger. Who wouldn’t want that?

If you use sex toys too much, you won’t have an orgasm with your partner.

If your partner is afraid you’ll replace him or her with your favorite toy, promise him or her that you’ll always keep things different in the bedroom: try different positions, new toys, light bondage and fantasy play.

If your relationship is healthy, there’s no reason why you should need a sex toy.

You are so lucky to have a healthy relationship. However, who wouldn’t want to make their relationship even stronger and closer by sharing a new experience? If your lover is insistent about not wanting to use an adult toy to spice up your sex life, assure him or her that you don’t need an adult toy either, you’d just like to try one.

You or your partner is afraid of feeling pleasure

Pleasure is a birthright. Everyone deserves it and should have it. Own your sexuality and do what works for you. After all, orgasms make you healthier and happier.

Buying sex toys can be really embarrassing especially because they look gross and scary.

You are right. Now, thanks to the Internet, you can shop in the comfort of your own home without judgement. Most adult toys make you feel uncomfortable because they are usually phallic or cheesey or are so loud that you think your children or neighbor might hear what you are up to. Luxury sex toys are just the opposite. You might not even realize that they are high quality adult toys because they look like art. They are now so discreet and quiet that no one will know what you are up to.

These arguments might make sense and work for most people but might not work for you. If that’s the case, here are 3 more reasons to try out sex toys:

Pleasure = Sex Toys

Who is not a fan of orgasms? You might be too tired or too busy to have sex, but there’s no denying that orgasms feel good. Adult toys can help you have more orgasms. What’s wrong with that?

Sex Toys are Fun.

Whether you have been with your lover for a few months or many years, things might be a little stale and you want to try something new. That’s OK – you are not alone! Adult toys can add excitement to the bedroom and keep things from getting mundane. Using an adult toy together can bring you closer; sharing new experiences together can be very intimate.

Sex Toys Make Sex Better.

Did you know that about 30% of women actually have an orgasm during sex? Most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm. Meanwhile, many men have trouble sustaining their erections as long as they would like, whether it be because of age, medication or stress. That’s what adults toys are for!

If you are now ready to start using adult toys, here are a few suggestions to get started:

Start slow by starting out with something small. Start with a small toy and show your lover that the toy is all about adding more pleasure and excitement to the bedroom. For example, if you want to try a vibrator, start with something that’s small and discreet, like a finger vibrator or vibrating egg. If you want to try light bondage, try a blindfold or holding your lover’s hands above their head during foreplay.

When you are ready, work your way up to something bigger and bolder.

Above all else, remember that communication is the key to any healthy relationship. If you can’t share your feelings or desires, something is not right. Intimacy and fun are the main goal. It is entirely up to you to decide whether that means with or without sex toys, but experimentation never hurt anyone!

Exploring Toys For Six to Nine Months

Look out parents! At six to nine months your baby has advanced to a whole new level of play. That means you need a toy upgrade! This is the age where your baby is beginning to sit up and maybe even crawl. Your baby’s hand-eye-coordination is rapidly developing which means they can now pick up a toy and bang it on the floor. As annoying the new noise can be, it is a good sign. It also means that your baby is probably bored with their old toys and is getting interested in toys they can interact with. Activity centers, blocks, soft objects, and containers are perfect when starting your upgraded toy collection.

A stationary activity that is great for strengthening your baby’s back and neck is the play saucer. Your baby can stand or sit in the play saucer and be surrounded by gadgets that make noise, light up, and flip. This helps to fine tune the motor skills while keeping your baby occupied. Experts suggest you limit play saucer play time to twenty minute intervals so that weight is put the heels of their feet and not just their toes. Activity centers or busy boards in their crib or play pen can really excite your little one for a while and it keeps them company when they first wake up from their nap.

By this age your baby is probably more mobile and getting into everything. They are most likely knocking down everything in sight which can be nerve racking for you as parents. Fortunately soft blocks and stacking toys are perfect for your little demolition crew. You can interact with your child by building things with the blocks specifically so that your baby can knock them down! Babies love this and you will hear many squeals of delight when they have destroyed your next block building.

Containers are also great in helping your child develop spatial concepts. You will find that will be very curious as to what fits together and what does not. Your baby can learn to distinguish between different shapes and sizes. Bath toys really play a hand in this spatial development because they can see the cause and effect of their actions. Babies get to see the light toys floating and the heavy toys splashing. There are some toys that will stick to the side of the bathtub and you can see the wheels turning in your baby’s eyes as they try and figure out how that works.

Although these toys will get you started on raising the bar on your toy collection, you will turn around twice and have to buy toys for your twelve month old. Don’t worry; there is a way to keep your baby’s toys fresh and new. When your child is having playtime do not give them all of their toys at once. Give your child two or three toys out of the toy supply and then later that day replace them with two or three other toys. This makes each toy seem original and saves you from a bored fussy baby. Baby, toddler, and preschool toys that develop with your child can give your baby an edge on achieving those important milestones.

Tomica Hypercity Mega Station Set – A Fun Toy to Inspire a Young Child’s Imagination

For the 3-5 year old age group, the Tomica Mega Station Hypercity Set is a fun railroad set that inspires the imagination. It is made by Tomy, a familiar name in the toy business, so you know it is a quality and durable play set for the kids. Tomy has been around for over eight decades and is an endearing toy company known for its innovative, quality and safe toys.

What is the Mega Station Hypercity Set? It is a fully automated railway station complete with lights, sounds, race track, rail road, train, station, pavement, convenience store, cars and a Tomika kid. It has a downtown area, with streets, parking, shops, working stoplights and streetlights—everything your child needs to comprehend the busy working world around him. For example, by pressing down on a button near the little store, he can launch a car out into the parking area. If he pushes another near the store, the doors will open. Cars ride up the ramp and then slide down to the train crossing. There are more buttons at the intersection to control when the cars cross over the tracks and when the train can cross.

The set is easy put together and you and your child can use your imagination in creatively setting it up in different ways. The train can run manually or on full automation and several children can play together with the set to run the different areas of the community. The kids can mimic the bustling activity of a train station and other parts of the city. When the train pulls into the terminal, the cars will stop at the train crossing and wait. When the train is on the move again, the cars are on the go again. The kids can be in control of all of everything by switching the station into manual mode.

You can even add additional features to the Mega Station Set to enhance the city features, or expand the set with the other city sets from Tomica. But they aren’t necessary for creative and imaginative play. You will need to pick up 4 C batteries for the set that is not included in the package.

The Tomica Mega Station Hypercity Set is made with durable quality materials and toy safety is not an issue as the Tomica Company always provides quality and reliable toys for children. The parts and pieces of the set are colorful as well as durable. It’s no wonder that Tomica toys are passed down from sibling to sibling, and this Mega Station set is no different.